Throughout my 20 years of existence, I have never felt important to anyone. I was always available. I find it offensive that I allowed myself to start living happily with the optional buddy and optional partner. I have no idea when I’ll be able to realize that I’m the right person for someone. There could be a lot of others in the area that share my feelings.
Seeing the contented individuals around them and knowing just who they want to chat to or run to after a long day. On several days, I observed things as they were, with people going about their daily lives, and I would just sit there with no idea where I was heading.
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Like Paris Gellar, I believed that having a life coach would help me with my emotional state. However, it only helped me trick myself into believing everything was OK. Yes, seeing a therapist greatly aids in your recovery, but as an individual going through life, you must resolve any issues on your own.
The problem is, you know when you’re depressed and that it’s that time of year, so you try to stay away from everything that could make you feel bad, but you go through that phase and ruin yourself. Forgets to eat, converse, interact with others, and enjoy life in general ,since your body is focused on surviving. And since you know about it, this crap consumes you from the inside out.
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And that night, I couldn’t stop looking through my phone for that one text—none of them did. Not a single individual, wasting everything on the wrong person once more.
Do I need to check myself into a rehab center to see a professional therapist, or continue as usual?
Don’t I entitled to live a typical life free from many highs and lows? I am aware that God is preparing me for battle. BUT…..Where will I find that one person I can always rush to when I simply want to cry?
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Once, a buddy began to doubt his love for his crush. He experienced a wave of separation and came to me, asking, “Is my love so weak that I can give up with someone so easily? I started to have serious doubts about this feeling, thinking, “I never loved her the way I used to think.”
Eventually, I realized that it wasn’t him, but rather his crush, who wasn’t making the same or nearly as much effort as he was. At that point, you start to doubt your own value, thinking, “Am I just capable of this bare minimum?” and feeling unimportant in other people’s lives, which makes you lose interest.I’m asking everyone to just “RUN” and get your significant other back if you sense they’re losing interest in you or have changed in behavior and you truly love or care about them.
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“It’s okay, it’s fine, I don’t care” and “I don’t know how much i can take” are the states in which you all find yourselves when living. The hardest aspect is that there are so many things to worry about that you never know what’s going on. You become emotionally detached from the irritation and small tears, and you transform into someone entirely different in order to function in society. You decide to disintegrate every tiny shit inside of you and feel hurt by yourself rather than talking things out.
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Is the epidemic of loneliness spreading? Does loneliness affect 1 in 4 people?
Why is it so hard to get along with people? why do we continue to experience problems periodically?It’s funny how we put others into our terrible thinking trap when we attempt to communicate to them and let them out of our loneliness. When someone fails to treat us with the respect we deserve and mistreats us, all that’s left of us is our former selves, which are even more confused and doubtful of themselves.
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Surprisingly, not many people discuss this chaotic time between adolescence and early adulthood. Many of us are currently battling our terrible personal fights. This stage of life is particularly difficult because it coincides with our desire to live fully and with the need to consider our future careers. Our need to be independent and to control the future can also lead to other errors.
I have personally compared my life to the first taste of a cocktail, which initially makes you uncomfortable before making you feel good.And after dealing with all of this garbage, I came to the conclusion that I should quit trying to control things outside of my power. Some things simply occur so that you might experience them and draw lessons from them.
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Darling, stay single until you find someone who doesn’t want to play games or hook up, someone who knows what they want and doesn’t confuse you, someone who can match your loyalty, and someone who is consistent.